This is a really big problem for people living in the West due to security issues. If a husband really doesn’t like his wife to wear hijab, nor does the wife have bad intentions in her mind (i.e. to show off), then what is the ruling for hijab? Particularly if it is observed that this issue is impacting their lives and relationship.
Full Hijab is an obligation that has many benefits, most of which we may not know, but since we trust in God’s wisdom, we know that He imposed this obligation for the good of a sound and virtuous society. If a wife is being pressured by her husband to abandon her hijab, she must kindly remind him that she is wearing it to fulfill her duty before God who deserves to be worshiped and obeyed as a way of gratitude for all the great blessings and bounties that He has bestowed. Moreover, one’s relationship with their Lord is more important than any other relationship. Hence you should not sacrifice this sacred relationship for any other one regardless of how significant it may be. In the West, security and safety are provided to everyone, including Muslims. Moreover, we have the right and protection to practice our religion the way we want under the Constitution. Thus, Muslims have the duty to uphold their religious obligations given such circumstances. However, if there are extreme and extraordinary security issues, a person can practice dissimulation, but only to the extent that it restores safety.