My dowry included a umrah and a hajj. Is ‘urf or common understanding taken into consideration when organizing these trips (i.e., suitable spending), especially for accommodations, food, travel, etc.? I am a doctor and I was raised in an upper-class family.
You are entitled to Hajj and Umrah as stated in your marriage contract, and ‘urf is taken into consideration in terms of the travel and accommodations that are suitable for your social status.