Martyrdom Anniversary of Imam Hasan al-Mujtaba (p), 1447 A.H.

Friday, August 1st, 2025 is the 7th of Safar 1447 A.H which marks the martyrdom anniversary of Imam Hasan al-Mujtaba (p)

The Rule That Could Change Every Relationship

Imam Hassan is reported to have said, “Associate with people in the same way you would like them to associate with you” [Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 75, p. 116].

In today’s world, where relationships are often transactional and driven by how others treat us, this short yet powerful statement by Imam Hassan (p) offers a refreshing perspective, one that has the potential to reshape every human interaction.

Imam Hassan (p) gives us a rule to live by, Treat others how you wish to be treated. Though simple in words, its implications are profound.

Most of us mirror the energy we receive. If someone is kind, we’re kind. If they’re distant, we pull away. But this reactive approach often leads to misunderstandings, hurt, and broken connections. Imam Hassan (p) encourages us to flip the script: lead with principle, not reaction.

This hadith teaches us to engage with people based on our values and not their behavior. It calls for intentionality, to extend compassion when it’s hard, to listen deeply, and to forgive even when pride resists. Because ultimately, how we treat others reflects our character, not theirs.

This is especially relevant for young people navigating friendships, families, or even online interactions. In a digital age where so much communication is fast, surface-level, or reactive, embodying this prophetic wisdom can anchor us in sincerity and humility.

So next time you’re unsure how to respond to someone, return to Imam Hassan’s advice. Let your words and actions be a reflection of what you’d hope to receive. Because this one rule might just change everything.

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