Should I Move Into a New Home During Muharram? 

1. Details about the Situation

Mariam Haider is 30 years old and lives in Dearborn, Michigan. Mariam and her husband have been living in a small rental apartment with their two children. After months of searching, they finally found an affordable house in a quiet neighborhood. The purchase closed on the 27th of Dhul Hijjah, just a few days before Muharram began.

Their lease was ending, and the landlord had already found new tenants. The moving truck was booked for the 2nd of Muharram. Mariam felt torn — was it disrespectful to move into a new home during such a sacred time of mourning, especially before Ashura?

She wanted to do the right thing, but she also couldn’t delay the move without incurring penalties or losing her housing opportunity.

2. Background

During times of sorrow of the Ahl al-Bayt, especially during the month of Muharram, we are encouraged to engage in mourning and remembrance. Such practices include engaging in reflection, donning black attire, and dedicating extra time and energy to the worship of God. 

Believers are encouraged to avoid actions that contradict the spirit of grief, such as celebrating and getting dressed up for a happy occasion. In fact, as a guide, a person should consider what behaviors they would avoid if they were grieving the loss of a loved one, and behave accordingly out of love and respect for the Ahl al-Bayt (p). If it is not considered to be necessary, they should choose a time that is far removed from the periods in the Islamic calendar which are designated for mourning the Ahl al-Bayt (p).

3. Ruling

Moving into a new home during Muharram is not haram.

However, believers should avoid conducting the move in a way that conflicts with the atmosphere of mourning — such as holding a housewarming party, decorating festively, or wearing celebratory clothing.

If the move is necessary due to lease deadlines, financial reasons, or family needs, it is permissible, provided it is done with simplicity and dignity.

This scenario demonstrates how believers can respect the sanctity of Muharram while still fulfilling practical needs. Life does not always pause for grief — but actions taken during sacred times should reflect the emotional and spiritual tone of those months.

4. Action

Mariam and her husband decide to proceed with the move as planned. She and her husband move their belongings efficiently and without fanfare. They make a silent intention (niyyah) that the home becomes a place of remembrance for the Ahl al-Bayt (p). They even set the intention to host Quran recitation and small majlis with their close family members during these sacred days and have agreed to contribute some sadaqa to local believers in need. Out of respect, they plan to wait until Rabi‘ al-Awwal to invite friends over for a housewarming meal.