Monday, August 11th, 2025, is the 17th of Safar which marks the martyrdom anniversary of Imam Ali ibn Musa al-Rida (p).

The Door to Paradise May Be in Your Home

From the very first moment of our lives, our parents have carried us in ways we may never fully understand. They gave up their comfort for ours, lost sleep to watch over us, and loved us before we could even comprehend love. Their presence in our lives is not just a blessing, it is a sacred trust.

In Islam, kindness to parents is not simply a recommendation. It is a command from Allah, an act of worship that brings us closer to Him. This duty does not fade with time, distance, or even differences in belief.

The Imam’s Guidance: Kindness Without Exception

Imam al‑Rida (p) said: “Being kind to parents is obligatory, even if they are polytheists, but should not be obeyed if in it is disobedience to the Creator” [Bihar al‑Anwar, vol. 10, p. 356].

The right of our parents to our kindness is not conditional. Whether they share our faith or not, whether they understand our path or question it, our responsibility is to treat them with respect, mercy, and love.

Kindness Without Conditions

Our parents’ shortcomings or mistakes do not erase the sacrifices they made. Islam calls us to honor them in speech, action, and prayer. Speaking gently, offering help, and showing gratitude are forms of worship that can open the gates of Paradise.

Loving Them Without Disobeying Him

While kindness is always owed, our ultimate obedience belongs to Allah. If parents ask for something that goes against His commands, we must politely refrain. Yet even in disagreement, our tone, manners, and care should remain rooted in love.

A Prayer Your Parents Deserve

Pray for them, whether they are with you now or have returned to Allah, that He grants them mercy and rewards every sacrifice, sleepless night, and act of love they gave you. In honoring them, you honor the One who created you both.


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